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Read what current foster parents
and resource family workers have to say about their
experiences:
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love being foster parents and would encourage
anyone who loves children to consider it.
You just have to have patience and lots of
love. It does take work, but the love you
receive back makes it worth it. I would recommend
to anyone who loves children to call DCCCA
and try being a foster parent. You will meet
all kinds of kids but basically they all want
someone to believe in them and love them.
Even the toughest kids want to be loved. They
may not know how to accept that love at first
but they will come to understand that you
care. Your love can make a difference in the
future of a child." - Elaine
Worden, Topeka, KS |
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| "Being
a resource parent is something I am
good at. I love learning new parenting
ways. We have adopted three of our children
in foster care. You can not believe
the feeling you get when you see a child
no one else believed in succeed in your
home. The support I get from my DCCCA
staff helps make our job easier. Knowing
they are there 24/7 for me helps me
continue to be there for the children."
- Joann Kurth, Great Bend,
KS |
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| "Being
foster parents has been challenging and enhancing
to our family. The challenges are overshadowed
by the enjoyment and satisfaction of
knowing that we have made a difference in
children’s lives, that we have had the
pleasure of having in our home.
Every child has unique reason
for being in foster care and every child’s
needs are different. Our family had the blessing
of adopting a child that had been in
our home." - Betty Hazlett,
Great Bend, KS |
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"I
became a resource parent because it
was a dream of my wife's. Now it is
my dream. When they leave your home
at 18 and continue to call you "mom
& dad" when they are in
their 20's just because...that is a
great thing!"
- Neil V., Pawnee Rock,
KS |
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"It
is rewarding to see the resource families
providing a supportive, stable environment
for the foster children and assisting them
in excelling to their fullest capabilities.
It gives the foster children an opportunity
to see what a "normal" family environment
is to be like which the resource family
is able to also teach the children what is
appropriate and not appropriate in all kinds
of settings, church, school, out in the public,
how to relate to both peers and adults in
their lives, etc. The resource families
are giving the foster children the opportunity
to have some one who truely cares about them and
providing them with a home until hopefully
they return to their own home. One situation
that comes to mind is a resource family who has
a 2, 3 and 4 year old sibling group, these
children have been in this home for 8 months
and to see the progress they have made is
so amazing as the two older ones are both
1-2 years behind developmentally. Through
all the time and effort and extra services
the foster family has gotten the children
into, they are slowly catching up to their
actual age and also, physically. I enjoy
working with the resource families and supporting
their efforts in working with the foster children
as the resource families are the ones who
are giving children a chance for positive
change in their lives."
- Nancy Free, DCCCA Resource Family
Worker, Pittsburg, KS |
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"A
male teenager was ready to transition out
of a recovery services program into a resource
family home. He had made a decision that going
back home was not in his best interest at
that time. He was placed in a home that had
lots of experience with teenage kids. He recently
called to thank me for everything and for
placing him in the best foster home. He is
now ready to be released and to return home.
He said his foster home was having a family
gathering to celebrate his transition of him
going back home and that his foster mother
commented, 'even though you are leaving our
home, our door will always be open to you!'
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- Sheila Forrest, DCCCA Resource
Family Worker, Pittsburg, KS |
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